Banned from friending people on Facebook because I friended people on Facebook
January 7, 2013 8 Comments
Like most people who love to use social media I’m on Facebook all the time. And like most other social media websites I invite or “friend” people that share the same interest I do. So I was shocked when I receive a notice form Facebook saying, I have been banned from requesting new fiends for 30-days.
Really? Why? I don’t recall sending anyone a friend request in the least two weeks on Facebook.
The notice also said, I can only friend request people I actually know personally.
Well that’s a slap in the face to those of us who are seeking out other people who share similar interest and hobbies. Not to mention if you play any of the online games supported by Facebook. I don’t think I know more than 3 out of the dozens of people I play against in Words with Friends.
I decided to look up Facebook’s rules regarding friending people. The statements below were taken word for word from Facebook’s own web site.
“Why am I blocked from sending friend requests?“
If your account is temporarily blocked from sending friend requests, it’s because friend requests you’ve sent have gone unanswered or been marked as unwelcome. From now on, please don’t send friend requests to people you don’t know personally. Facebook is a place for connecting with friends, family, classmates, coworkers and other people you know well.
“Who should I send friend requests to?”
Facebook is a place for connecting with friends, family, and other people you know personally. You should send friend requests to people you have a real-life connection to, like your friends, family, coworkers, or classmates.
So apparently those people on Facebook who have thousands of friends are actually family, classmates and coworkers? I don’t think so.
Then I saw this Facebook rule.
“Who can send me friend requests?“
By default, anyone on Facebook can send you a friend request.
Wait! “Anyone” can send you a friend request? But that conflicts with the other rules. Obviously this rule has not been thoroughly thought out, or at the very least updated.
I understand the point Facebook is trying to make. They want to reduce spam as much as possible. But most of us are harmless. We are just looking to make new friends or at the very least new people to chat with online.
The system that monitors who friends who appears to be automated, a conclusion I came to after reading this statement on Facebook’s website.
If you’ve been blocked by mistake, we won’t be able to end the block early—but you’ll be able to send friend requests again soon. We’re sorry for the inconvenience! In the meantime, you can still use other Facebook features to connect with your confirmed friends.
Disgruntled I tried to reach out to Facebook but they provide little if any practical way to communicate our problems to them. No email, phone number or even an online form which would be the most logical way to do it. And the fact that they say, “we won’t be able to end the block early” just tells me they have no interest, at this time, in dealing with it.
It seems unfortunately that all any of us can do who have been blocked is just wait it out and hope it does not happen again.
A couple of other Facebook rules regarding friending people you mite want to read.
- How can I make sure I don’t get blocked from adding friends again?
- I’m blocked even though I know all of the people I’ve sent friend requests to.
- Facebook Community Standards